In life, we usually try to please other people as best as we can, but why it is in a marriage we love our partner how we want them to love us and not the way they actually need to be loved. We all want to be loved – whichever way it might be. However, when receiving the wrong type of love we can often start to feel empty and unwanted…. This is why it is important for us as a couple to understand the Five languages of love. Every one of us has a preference for what makes us feel most loved. Understanding love languages leads to the ability to communicate with your partner in a non-judgemental way.